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Issues & Concerns Category => Womens Ordination & Related Issues => Topic started by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 02:04:07 PM

Title: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 02:04:07 PM
It has been argued that the promoting of Women's Ordination is purely to save women from millennia of subjection and inequality.  It has also been argued that ordination of women in the Protestant churches has been followed by acceptance of homosexuality.

For those who say that this will never happen in the Seventh-day Adventist church, please note that in the popular press, "gender neutrality" is used increasingly in conjunction with acceptance of homosexuality.

Here are a smattering of topics from the internet (and there are many more):

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Rutgers Okays ‘Gender-Neutral’ Dorm Rooms to Help Gays Feel Safer"

"Gay Agenda: Gender Neutrality a.k.a. Paganismgender neutrality"

"gender neutrality:
Suppose you are talking to someone (an acquaintance, a workmate, a person at a party) who you are pretty sure is gay.."

Compare the similarity of this Spectrum article with the above:

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"Columbia Union Conference Authorizes Ordination Without Regard to Gender"
by Robert Jacobson


"Without regard to gender" sounds very much like "gender neutrality" to me.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 02:51:02 PM
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In the Senate, Sen. Gary Hooser (D, Kauai-Niihau) introduced a bill, SB-1062, to permit two unrelated people at least 16 years old to apply for a civil-union license "without regard to gender."

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Marriage has evolved into a civil institution through which the state formally recognizes and ennobles individuals’ choices to enter into long-term, committed, intimate relationships and to build households based on mutual support. With the free choice of the two parties and their continuing consent as foundations, marriage laws treat both spouses in a gender-neutral fashion, without regard to gender-role stereotypes.
At least, most of the time. Except in Massachusetts, Iowa, Vermont, New Hampshire, Connecticut, and Washington, D.C., men may only marry women, and women may only marry men. This requirement is an exception to the gender-neutral approach of contemporary marriage law and to the long-term trend toward legal equality in spouses’ marital roles...
Enabling couples of the same sex to gain equal marriage rights would be consistent with the historical trend toward broadening access.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 03:00:48 PM
As can be seen by the above quotes, the language that Spectrum uses can equally apply to women's rights or gay rights.

Was this by accident or by choice?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on July 31, 2012, 03:33:04 PM
Personally it is such arguments that have turned me against the "don't ordain women" movement.  If we need to resort to those types of arguments to stop the ordination of women then there is something seriously wrong in my opinion.

First I do not think ordaining women is "gender neutrality" any more than a woman being certified as a doctor  is "gender neutrality.
A woman is still A WOMAN no matter what occupation she has.  Just as a man is still a man even if he washes the dishes.

Secondly, being a WOMAN is not a sin.
According to the bible, any sexual relationship outside of the marriage of a man and a woman IS SIN.
So to equate being a woman to being an active homosexual is just very insulting.
So why use such arguments?

Anyone practicing what scripture plainly states as sin, shouldn't be in church leadership, no matter if they are man or woman.   The qualifications for church leadership should be a consecrated life to Lord, and a life that shows the fruits of that relationship.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on July 31, 2012, 03:55:38 PM
I hear you, Ulicia. The problem I see is that the women's ordination question has paved the way for the gay rights agenda in other denominations. And there are pro-WO folk who call themselves Adventists who do see a link between the two causes.

If either of these points is incorrect, I would appreciate enlightenment.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 04:18:00 PM
The article from Adventist News Network on the Columbia Union Conference votes includes this description of the delegates lined up to speak at the microphones:

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"Many voiced their belief that all whom the Holy Spirit has clearly called to ministry should be ordained without regard to gender..."

How long before a church entity will be using this phrase to justify voting in rights for homosexuals?  If the gay person "has clearly been called by the Holy Spirit to ministry"...
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Murcielago on July 31, 2012, 04:52:00 PM
And how long before the use of Ellen White leads to broad justification for putting the Bible aside? I know SDAs who already have. Could that perhaps be the next logical step in the Church if we continue to allow EGW to be used as divine authority? Does that fear justify banning EGW in the Church?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 05:10:09 PM
Does that have something to do with gender issues or women's ordination?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on July 31, 2012, 05:11:58 PM
And how long before the use of Ellen White leads to broad justification for putting the Bible aside? I know SDAs who already have. Could that perhaps be the next logical step in the Church if we continue to allow EGW to be used as divine authority? Does that fear justify banning EGW in the Church?

I don't know of any SDA's who have done that...certainly not a standard Adventist position.  Many more in my part of the world who have done the opposite.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on July 31, 2012, 05:20:42 PM
The difficulty, as C. Raymond Holmes pointed out, is that the arguments against permitting homosexual practices in the church are based on Bible verses written by the apostle Paul (and others), and arguments against permitting women's ordination are based on Bible verses written by the apostle Paul (and others).

So why ignore what Paul wrote about the roles of men and women? Because what he wrote had to do with the culture of those times, or the culture of the cities he was writing to. Since we have a different culture, the logic goes, what Paul wrote does not apply.

So why ignore what Paul wrote about homosexual practices? Because what he wrote had to do with the culture of those times, or the culture of the cities he was writing to. Since we have a different culture in these perverse times, the logic goes, what Paul wrote does not apply.

Some get more specific. Some say that Paul's concern was not about homosexual practices, but about pagan worship practices. Since homosexual practices are not a part of pagan worship today, the logic goes, what he wrote does not apply to us today.

I think some have explained away Paul's concern about the roles of men and women on the basis of pagan worship practices too.

If the present push for WO has anything to do with societal and cultural pressures, then certainly as we have more and more agitation and pressure for gay so-called rights, we can expect more and more agitation and pressure for the same within the church.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: christian on July 31, 2012, 05:21:37 PM
And how long before the use of Ellen White leads to broad justification for putting the Bible aside? I know SDAs who already have. Could that perhaps be the next logical step in the Church if we continue to allow EGW to be used as divine authority? Does that fear justify banning EGW in the Church?

It would be interesting to know the person's who have put the bible aside for EGW. It has been my experience that the disbelief in EGW eventually leads to the disregard of the bible. No one I know is using Ellen G. White as the divine authority especially on women's ordination.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on July 31, 2012, 09:37:13 PM
The article from Adventist News Network on the Columbia Union Conference votes includes this description of the delegates lined up to speak at the microphones:

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"Many voiced their belief that all whom the Holy Spirit has clearly called to ministry should be ordained without regard to gender..."

How long before a church entity will be using this phrase to justify voting in rights for homosexuals?  If the gay person "has clearly been called by the Holy Spirit to ministry"...

I really don't see the connection.
What has gender to do with sin?

Identifying women with homosexuals is like saying.
If we ordain women we have to ordain drug addicts
If we ordain women we have to ordain alcoholics
If we ordain women we have to ordain adulterers

To try to make the understanding clearer maybe saying
If we allow women to teach the Sabbath School lesson we have to allow homosexuals to teach the Sabbath School lesson.

Or if we allow women to teach the children we will have to allow child molesters teach the children.
I mean it's just such a strange (and wrong) way of reasoning.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: christian on July 31, 2012, 09:47:05 PM
The article from Adventist News Network on the Columbia Union Conference votes includes this description of the delegates lined up to speak at the microphones:

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"Many voiced their belief that all whom the Holy Spirit has clearly called to ministry should be ordained without regard to gender..."

How long before a church entity will be using this phrase to justify voting in rights for homosexuals?  If the gay person "has clearly been called by the Holy Spirit to ministry"...

I really don't see the connection.
What has gender to do with sin?

Identifying women with homosexuals is like saying.
If we ordain women we have to ordain drug addicts
If we ordain women we have to ordain alcoholics
If we ordain women we have to ordain adulterers

To try to make the understanding clearer maybe saying
If we allow women to teach the Sabbath School lesson we have to allow homosexuals to teach the Sabbath School lesson.

Or if we allow women to teach the children we will have to allow child molesters teach the children.
I mean it's just such a strange (and wrong) way of reasoning.

  You may not see the correlation but it is definitely there and you will see the results in the future. What you fail to realize is that Homosexuality is not against the law as the other examples you mentioned. The fight is not merely a matter of ordination of women but a power struggle of who will control the church. The institution is a representation of heaven here on earth. I have stated before that the desire of Satan is to so pervert the house of God as to make the prodigal son's return impossible. The stakes are high the church is being corrupted and misrepresented and thrown off task. The sinners desire is no longer to flee the church but rather to change the church into their image. Is Jesus no longer the groom or is he the bride now?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on July 31, 2012, 10:05:57 PM
I hear you, Ulicia. The problem I see is that the women's ordination question has paved the way for the gay rights agenda in other denominations. And there are pro-WO folk who call themselves Adventists who do see a link between the two causes.

If either of these points is incorrect, I would appreciate enlightenment.
Many reasons are given to allow sin in the churches.   
And I agree this is NOT the first time I've run across people bringing up this argument that if we ordain women that somehow we will have to ordain homosexuals.

Whether or not women are recognized as commissioned by God to minister (ordained) or whether they minister in leadership positions for God without official recognition (ordination)  has nothing to do with allowing homosexuals EITHER of those privileges of church leadership.

The problem is that the world seems to have identified the so called gay person as another "gender".   
So they don't think of a homosexual as a MAN but simply as a homosexual, and a lesbian isn't a woman, but a lesbian.
Why  has the world come to that?
Aren't they still men or women?
As far as I'm concerned a homosexual is a MAN who has a sinful propensity, just as an adulterer is a man with a sinful propensity.
And a lesbian is a woman with a sinful propensity, just as promiscuise woman is still a woman with a sinful propensity.
 

I would think allowing ordained men who are  unfaithful to their wives to continue in ministry (just moving them to another conference) would be much more of an argument for allowing homosexuals to be ordained ministers.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on July 31, 2012, 10:09:20 PM
  You may not see the correlation but it is definitely there and you will see the results in the future. What you fail to realize is that Homosexuality is not against the law as the other examples you mentioned. The fight is not merely a matter of ordination of women but a power struggle of who will control the church. The institution is a representation of heaven here on earth. I have stated before that the desire of Satan is to so pervert the house of God as to make the prodigal son's return impossible. The stakes are high the church is being corrupted and misrepresented and thrown off task. The sinners desire is no longer to flee the church but rather to change the church into their image. Is Jesus no longer the groom or is he the bride now?


Neither is adultery against our country's law.  Neither is promiscuity against our country's law.

Whether this is a power struggle between men and women is another topic.

What I am against is equating women with homosexuals.
If people have to resort to that to defend the "men only" stance, then there is something very wrong.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: christian on July 31, 2012, 10:29:12 PM
  You may not see the correlation but it is definitely there and you will see the results in the future. What you fail to realize is that Homosexuality is not against the law as the other examples you mentioned. The fight is not merely a matter of ordination of women but a power struggle of who will control the church. The institution is a representation of heaven here on earth. I have stated before that the desire of Satan is to so pervert the house of God as to make the prodigal son's return impossible. The stakes are high the church is being corrupted and misrepresented and thrown off task. The sinners desire is no longer to flee the church but rather to change the church into their image. Is Jesus no longer the groom or is he the bride now?


Neither is adultery against our country's law.  Neither is promiscuity against our country's law.

Whether this is a power struggle between men and women is another topic.

What I am against is equating women with homosexuals.
If people have to resort to that to defend the "men only" stance, then there is something very wrong.
That is true but neither of those examples are excepted as right. You will be hard pressed to find even people who have went through divorce as saying it is right. Neither will you find very many excepting promiscuity as right. However, you will find many trying to say that homosexuality is something one is born with and there is nothing wrong with it. I stated I believe that homosexuality will eventually be excepted as the norm and as something you are born with, as normal as heterosexuality. I have seen many a person re baptised after divorce or promiscuity, fornication.----- Men and women have bib-lacally been given different roles in the church. I am sure you as a woman can understand that God did not give men breast because it was not his design to have him suckle a child. Again, I believe it is Gods design that men should be the head in the church as in the home. I do believe there are times when women are required to play certain roles not design for them. When men fail to be good fathers, or are not present in the home the mother has to take up the slack but that is not excepted as the norm.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on July 31, 2012, 11:12:36 PM
Just wondering --
Do you deal much with people outside the church?
 If you did you would know that  adultery and promiscuity is the given way of life for most.
There are many strange things accepted as the norm

Many don't get married any more, they just "shack up" till they get bored of each other, then they part and find a new partner or partners.  That's accepted as a norm by A LOT of people.  It's even supported by the government.  A common law partner gets most of the privileges as a married partner now.

I taught children for several years (not in church school) , and oh so many came from broken homes, so many.  It's a sad thing really.   There are MANY mothers with children, with no father anywhere in sight.  Worse is all the mother's boyfriends the poor kids have to put up with.
And yes, it's accepted as normal in our day and age.
Normal simply means that a large percentage of the people experience it, and society accepts it as such.

School textbooks no longer have the classic father, mother, Dick, Jane and baby Sally anymore. 
Now families are depicted as -- mother and couple kids but no father, or father with kids, but no mother.  Or mother with her kids marrying a father with his kids.  Families are depicted now as a group of people living together.   And yes, they are trying to push the two fathers, or two mothers.


The break down of the family is a very real thing in our present society.
Most young men just want to play computer games they aren't interested in being a spiritual leader in home or church.  Mothers are left with the kids usually.  Though sometimes mothers leave the kids with the father and run off after their own illusive dreams.





Personally I don't think equating the women with gays etc. is going to do anything constructive.
It's hurting your cause, not helping it.


Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 01, 2012, 06:04:01 AM
As C. Raymond Holmes explained how this drama has played out in other denominations, it has to do with a church's view of Scripture.

Ordination of women requires explaining away Bible passages as having to do with the culture of Bible times, and thus inapplicable for us today. Once this method of interpretation is adopted, that of making of none effect biblical texts through the use of the culture argument, then there remains no scriptural basis for excluding practicing homosexuals from the clergy or church since the same argument has already been applied to those passages too.

As far as adultery goes, one denomination I think has already gone on record as no longer discriminating against anyone who engages in any sort of sexual sin.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 01, 2012, 06:05:50 AM
Come to think of it, in the late 1980's or early 1990's, I was told that there was an Adventist pastor who would "marry" homosexuals.

In 1996 at Andrews I was in a class at Mission Institute, and an instructor referred to some conference on Aids more than once. That jogged my memory and I asked him when he sat down amongst all of us future missionaries, "Why did the Review print two different pictures regarding that conference in which a gay activist was featured prominently?" Most wouldn't have known who the guy was.

He responded, "I don't know why the Review printed the pictures that it did, but the fellow is a Seventh-day Adventist in good and regular standing." I never mentioned the guy's name, but somehow he knew who I was talking about.

I replied, "Why? His church doesn't want to deal with the matter?"

He then proceeded to draw a line with "heterosexual monogamy" at one end, "homosexual promiscuity" at the other end, and "homosexual monogamy" in the middle. He then said that when he preaches to homosexuals, like perhaps at their camp meetings, he tells them to be monogamous.

You should have seen the faces of the other missionaries when he said that. He blew it and he knew it.

I am not saying that a huge push for acceptance of sodomy is around the corner, but we do have people out there with weird, kooky ideas on the subject.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on August 01, 2012, 10:16:34 AM
I don't know how wierd or kooky that is any more.  I belonged to a church during that time period that you mentioned, and the pastor, who was pretty much a personal friend of us there, said something like church people shouldn't try to change the orientation of homosexuals (SDA in this case).
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Johann on August 01, 2012, 01:24:32 PM
And how long before the use of Ellen White leads to broad justification for putting the Bible aside? I know SDAs who already have. Could that perhaps be the next logical step in the Church if we continue to allow EGW to be used as divine authority? Does that fear justify banning EGW in the Church?

It seems to me that several members of this forum have already "banned" what EGW says about ordaining women, at least they brand those as rebels who take her seriously.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on August 01, 2012, 02:04:51 PM
The cultural implications

1)  Is the Biblical admonition against homosexuality a cultural thing?

No -- it is all through the Bible declared as "an abomination to the Lord".
Leviticus 18  is pretty straight forward against incest and homosexual behavior.
It's a call to LEAVE the culture of surrounding countries and not do these abominations.

Lev. 20 has a list of sins that result in the death penalty, adultery and homosexual behavior among them.
"The wages of sin" is still "death", though Christ suffered that penalty for all sinners, including homosexual sin, and forgiveness and restoration is offered to all who come to Christ for forgiveness and cleansing, yet this clearly shows it is SIN, not a "cultural restriction".

Paul's reference has nothing to do with "policies of the church" but who will and who will not enter heaven!
1 Cor.  6:9   Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 
 6:10   Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 




2)  Is ordaining or not ordaining  women a cultural thing?

First I find nothing in scripture saying "to ordain a woman is an abomination to the Lord".
Secondly, what Paul does write concerning women in church  has long ago been relegated to the "cultural bin" by even the most ardent "no ordination for women" people!!

Are women silent in church? -- Paul says he does not allow women to speak in church.
1 Cor. 14:35   And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 

1 Timothy 2:11   Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 
 2:12   But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 

If people really take Paul seriously we would never have any woman  be an Adult Sabbath School teacher, a Sabbath School Superintendent, or any other office which requires teaching or speaking or having authority over a man.

Now, it is plain that Paul is speaking of CHURCH POLICIES, for he writes
 “...I am writing you these instructions so that ... you will know how people ought to conduct themselves in God's household, which is the church of the living God...” (1 Timothy 3:14-15)

Yes, most all Christians, including Adventists treat these verses as "cultural" and no longer applicable to our day.  Possible some Mennonites still follow it as their women wear little scarfs or hats (another of Paul's commands) and don't allow women up front.



Conclusion:
So Point One is not cultural, it is repeatedly listed in the Bible as SIN.
Point Two is dealing with church policy.

So there is a difference!

Again, my concern is equating women with homosexuals.
To do so means people have accepted the worldly claims that homosexuality is not a sin, just an orientation.
And if that is the case, really, resisting the ordination of women won't stop homosexual's from being ordained -- after all they are still physically men, and when its to their advantage they will claim to be men.

The issue with ordaining homosexual's isn't a gender issue at all, it is whether the church sees homosexual activity as sin or not.



When we as a church get confused as what is sin and what is church policies it seems we need to take a second look.



Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 02, 2012, 05:26:15 AM
The cultural implications

1)  Is the Biblical admonition against homosexuality a cultural thing?

No -- it is all through the Bible declared as "an abomination to the Lord".
Leviticus 18  is pretty straight forward against incest and homosexual behavior.
It's a call to LEAVE the culture of surrounding countries and not do these abominations.

Lev. 20 has a list of sins that result in the death penalty, adultery and homosexual behavior among them.
"The wages of sin" is still "death", though Christ suffered that penalty for all sinners, including homosexual sin, and forgiveness and restoration is offered to all who come to Christ for forgiveness and cleansing, yet this clearly shows it is SIN, not a "cultural restriction".

Paul's reference has nothing to do with "policies of the church" but who will and who will not enter heaven!
1 Cor.  6:9   Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 
 6:10   Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

I agree, and so do most of our members. But nevertheless, the culture argument still gets used today, and will get used in the future.

2)  Is ordaining or not ordaining  women a cultural thing?

...

1 Timothy 2:11   Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 
 2:12   But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 

If people really take Paul seriously we would never have any woman  be an Adult Sabbath School teacher, a Sabbath School Superintendent, or any other office which requires teaching or speaking or having authority over a man.

...

Yes, most all Christians, including Adventists treat these verses as "cultural" and no longer applicable to our day.  Possible some Mennonites still follow it as their women wear little scarfs or hats (another of Paul's commands) and don't allow women up front.

At least certain Church of Christ and Plymouth Brethren groups  do as well.

But here is a problem:

1 Tim. 2:13-14  For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

How can Paul's statements be just cultural when he cites Creation and the Fall, events that transcend every human culture, tradition, and policy on earth?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Gregory on August 02, 2012, 06:53:11 AM
Is it a sin to be homosexual?  MY answer, No.

Is it a sin to engage in homosexual conduct?  My answer, the Bible says it is.

NOTE:  When I say that it isnot a sin to be homosexual, I do not justify the conduct.  I have known a number of homosexuals who were celebate.  They did not engage in homosexual conduct.

Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on August 02, 2012, 10:52:59 AM
Is it a sin to be homosexual?  MY answer, No.

Is it a sin to engage in homosexual conduct?  My answer, the Bible says it is.

NOTE:  When I say that it isnot a sin to be homosexual, I do not justify the conduct.  I have known a number of homosexuals who were celebate.  They did not engage in homosexual conduct.

How did you know they weren't engaging?

Did you follow them around and watch closely enough to know for sure?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: christian on August 02, 2012, 10:53:41 AM
Just wondering --
Do you deal much with people outside the church?
 If you did you would know that  adultery and promiscuity is the given way of life for most.
There are many strange things accepted as the norm

Many don't get married any more, they just "shack up" till they get bored of each other, then they part and find a new partner or partners.  That's accepted as a norm by A LOT of people.  It's even supported by the government.  A common law partner gets most of the privileges as a married partner now.

I taught children for several years (not in church school) , and oh so many came from broken homes, so many.  It's a sad thing really.   There are MANY mothers with children, with no father anywhere in sight.  Worse is all the mother's boyfriends the poor kids have to put up with.
And yes, it's accepted as normal in our day and age.
Normal simply means that a large percentage of the people experience it, and society accepts it as such.

School textbooks no longer have the classic father, mother, Dick, Jane and baby Sally anymore. 
Now families are depicted as -- mother and couple kids but no father, or father with kids, but no mother.  Or mother with her kids marrying a father with his kids.  Families are depicted now as a group of people living together.   And yes, they are trying to push the two fathers, or two mothers.


The break down of the family is a very real thing in our present society.
Most young men just want to play computer games they aren't interested in being a spiritual leader in home or church.  Mothers are left with the kids usually.  Though sometimes mothers leave the kids with the father and run off after their own illusive dreams.





Personally I don't think equating the women with gays etc. is going to do anything constructive.
It's hurting your cause, not helping it.
What you said is so very true, but a lot of the blame goes to the church. We have an obligation to point the world to Jesus but we have become much to preoccupied with success here in this world. In many ways we are worse off than those in the world because they may except their situation but they when expose to truth recognize it.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Gregory on August 02, 2012, 11:29:48 AM
Ariste asked:
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How did you know they weren't engaging?

How do I know that any person who comes to Christ gives up their sinful behavior and repents?

No, I do not have to followo them arround.

I simply believe in a God who can give people the power to give up their sinful behavior.


who is the God you believe in?  Is your God powerless?


Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Murcielago on August 02, 2012, 11:40:23 AM
Is it a sin to be homosexual?  MY answer, No.

Is it a sin to engage in homosexual conduct?  My answer, the Bible says it is.

NOTE:  When I say that it isnot a sin to be homosexual, I do not justify the conduct.  I have known a number of homosexuals who were celebate.  They did not engage in homosexual conduct.

How did you know they weren't engaging?

Did you follow them around and watch closely enough to know for sure?
Churches where the members are followed and watched are generally known as oppressive and dangerous cults. I would think that if Gregory engaged in that sort of behaviour it would warrant a call to the cops.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Artiste on August 02, 2012, 12:52:43 PM
Ariste asked:
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How did you know they weren't engaging?

How do I know that any person who comes to Christ gives up their sinful behavior and repents?

No, I do not have to followo them arround.

I simply believe in a God who can give people the power to give up their sinful behavior.

who is the God you believe in?  Is your God powerless?


It is fine to voice high-sounding religious principles.

You said:  "I have known a number of homosexuals who were celebate.  They did not engage in homosexual conduct."

I can say that this is an unlikely scenario, having dealt with hundreds of homosexuals, most of them professionally, but also some who were friends.

(Don't look now, but they may be laughing behind your back...)
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on August 02, 2012, 02:03:09 PM
2)  Is ordaining or not ordaining  women a cultural thing?

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1 Timothy 2:11   Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 
 2:12   But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 

If people really take Paul seriously we would never have any woman  be an Adult Sabbath School teacher, a Sabbath School Superintendent, or any other office which requires teaching or speaking or having authority over a man.

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Yes, most all Christians, including Adventists treat these verses as "cultural" and no longer applicable to our day.  Possible some Mennonites still follow it as their women wear little scarfs or hats (another of Paul's commands) and don't allow women up front.

At least certain Church of Christ and Plymouth Brethren groups  do as well.

But here is a problem:

1 Tim. 2:13-14  For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

How can Paul's statements be just cultural when he cites Creation and the Fall, events that transcend every human culture, tradition, and policy on earth?

That is a difficult verse to understand:
It says Eve "was deceived and was in transgression".

"Adam was not deceived."
But why is there no comment made in that verse about the fact that he transgressed as well, and if not deceived then it was outright  rebellion.   Sinning wilfully.
If he were a "leader" why didn't he take Eve's hand lead her to God when He came to talk with them, and intercede for her, instead of "sinning wilfully"?   Obviously he didn't trust God, he took things into his own hands.

Of course the Moslems and even some of the Jews back in Christ's day had some pretty strange ideas about women -- women weren't regarded as humans but simply as tempters.   (That's worse than being equated with homosexuals, as it's equating women with satan himself)
There were Pharisees who would close their eyes everytime a woman was in sight, even if they fell and stumbled all over the place because they couldn't see where they were going, they considered their bruises a badge of righteousness.

But beyond the questions that arise concerning this --
the fact still remains that this is NOT talking about ordination.
This is talking about women speaking and teaching and having their ideas upheld over a man's (any man's?) ideas in church.

And our church, even those opposed to ordination, have placed those verses in the cultural bin.

Where we stand now in these issues is basically that a woman can do all the work that an elder or even most pastors do within the local churches -- teaching, speaking in church, leading out in seminars and programs, organizing all sorts of church programs -- basically everything except baptizing new members and doing marriage performances.  And no one thinks there's anything wrong, it's only the question of ordination.   Yet, Paul doesn't talk about ordination.

So -- haven't the "no women ordination" people already shown that they regard these verses as "cultural".?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Dedication on August 02, 2012, 02:31:48 PM
It is fine to voice high-sounding religious principles.
You said:  "I have known a number of homosexuals who were celebate.  They did not engage in homosexual conduct."
I can say that this is an unlikely scenario, having dealt with hundreds of homosexuals, most of them professionally, but also some who were friends.
(Don't look now, but they may be laughing behind your back...)

How do you know a man is committing adultery?
Remember visual/fantasy adultery is sin just as well.   
How many ORDAINED PASTORS commit adultery?
How many are hooked on pronography?
Are they fit to be pastors?

Yes, there are men who are faithful to their wives and shun pronography.
And yes, that is often considered "a joke" by the majority.

If a life is fully surrendered to God, does God have the power to keep them from falling  into their carnal propensities?



 
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Johann on August 02, 2012, 03:52:19 PM
Is it a sin to be homosexual?  MY answer, No.

Is it a sin to engage in homosexual conduct?  My answer, the Bible says it is.

NOTE:  When I say that it isnot a sin to be homosexual, I do not justify the conduct.  I have known a number of homosexuals who were celebate.  They did not engage in homosexual conduct.



Thank you, Gregory. I have earlier indicated on this forum that my own father was a homosexual. But he married my mother, and there is not the slightest indication he ever committed homosexual acts. As far as his faith is concerned,  he was a real perfectionist with high morals. Although his homosexuality would, at times, give him some strange ideas, he would never compromise in any way against the commandments of God. Therefore I know it is possible for those who dedicate their lives fully to God.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 02, 2012, 07:30:47 PM
But here is a problem:

1 Tim. 2:13-14  For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

How can Paul's statements be just cultural when he cites Creation and the Fall, events that transcend every human culture, tradition, and policy on earth?

That is a difficult verse to understand:
It says Eve "was deceived and was in transgression".

"Adam was not deceived."
But why is there no comment made in that verse about the fact that he transgressed as well, and if not deceived then it was outright  rebellion.   Sinning wilfully.
If he were a "leader" why didn't he take Eve's hand lead her to God when He came to talk with them, and intercede for her, instead of "sinning wilfully"?   Obviously he didn't trust God, he took things into his own hands.

It was a stupid thing for Adam to do. But as one woman put it to me, she has noticed that women more than men tend to get caught up in fanatical ideas. So God may have decided to have the one of the pair who was least likely to be deceived be the one to lead.

But beyond the questions that arise concerning this --
the fact still remains that this is NOT talking about ordination.

There are two issues today, neither of which is really about ordination. (1) Church authority. (2) The office being ordained to.

Where we stand now in these issues is basically that a woman can do all the work that an elder or even most pastors do within the local churches -- teaching, speaking in church, leading out in seminars and programs, organizing all sorts of church programs -- basically everything except baptizing new members and doing marriage performances.  And no one thinks there's anything wrong, it's only the question of ordination.   Yet, Paul doesn't talk about ordination.

So -- haven't the "no women ordination" people already shown that they regard these verses as "cultural".?

I don't think so.

But more importantly, you left out a very vital aspect of ordination: Ordination confers the authority to (a) baptize and (b) organize churches. Since the gospel minister within the Adventist Church is not supposed to hover over existing churches, but generally speaking is supposed to concentrate on starting new churches, the push to ordain women to serve as mere local pastors, usurping to some extent the work of local elders, is just a further departure from our roots, the NT model, and SoP counsel.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Gregory on August 02, 2012, 08:18:36 PM
Ulicia said:
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Where we stand now in these issues is basically that a woman can do all the work that an elder or even most pastors do within the local churches -- teaching, speaking in church, leading out in seminars and programs, organizing all sorts of church programs -- basically everything except baptizing new members and doing marriage performances.  And no one thinks there's anything wrong, it's only the question of ordination.   Yet, Paul doesn't talk about ordination.

Female Commissioned Ministers in the SDA Church can baptize and perform marriages.

There is very little that a female Comissioned Minister cannot do that can be done by a male ordained minister.

Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 03, 2012, 04:57:14 AM
Ulicia said:
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Where we stand now in these issues is basically that a woman can do all the work that an elder or even most pastors do within the local churches -- teaching, speaking in church, leading out in seminars and programs, organizing all sorts of church programs -- basically everything except baptizing new members and doing marriage performances.  And no one thinks there's anything wrong, it's only the question of ordination.   Yet, Paul doesn't talk about ordination.

Female Commissioned Ministers in the SDA Church can baptize and perform marriages.

There is very little that a female Comissioned Minister cannot do that can be done by a male ordained minister.

They can only baptize and perform marriages if they are elected as and currently serving as a local church elder, and they can only do those things within their own district.

And would this only be true within divisions that permit women to serve in this manner? Are there not divisions where this does not occur?
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Gregory on August 03, 2012, 01:04:02 PM
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And would this only be true within divisions that permit women to serve in this manner? Are there not divisions where this does not occur?

Yes, the above is true.  But, an ordained, male, SDA minister, is not suppsed to baptize outside of his Conference unless he has permission in the area where he is.


My understanding is that female Commissioned SDA Clergy do not have to be elected Elder by their local congregation in order to baptize.

They can perform marriages without being elected Elder.  That issue has more to do with local law than with church law.  As a point of interest:  When you (Bob Pickle) lived inColorado, you were authorized by Colorado law to perform marriages.  I do not know if you did such.



Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 03, 2012, 08:22:46 PM
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And would this only be true within divisions that permit women to serve in this manner? Are there not divisions where this does not occur?

Yes, the above is true.  But, an ordained, male, SDA minister, is not suppsed to baptize outside of his Conference unless he has permission in the area where he is.

That's a different situation than an unordained minister not being able to baptize outside of his local district. However, he may obtain permission to do so from his conference president, and from the conference president where the baptism will occur if it is in a different conference.

Do you know where it says that an ordained minister must get permission before baptizing in another area?

My understanding is that female Commissioned SDA Clergy do not have to be elected Elder by their local congregation in order to baptize.

This is incorrect.

Quote from: NAD Working Policy
L 26 Commissioned Ministers in Pastoral Positions—Role and Status

L 26 05 Requirements—An employee in pastoral position is recognized as a commissioned minister when all the following prerequisites have been satisfied:

1. Completion of the Bachelor of Arts degree with a major in Bible or religion plus nine quarters in the Seventh-day Adventist Theological Seminary, or two years of employment in ministerial or pastoral work or a total of two years of seminary training and employment in ministerial or pastoral work. Until this prerequisite has been met, the person will receive a missionary license.

2. Recipient of a commissioned minister license.

3. Appointment by the conference to a ministerial or pastoral responsibility.

4. Election as a church elder in the churches or named in the companies to which he/she is assigned.

5. Ordained as local elder.

L 26 10 states that a commissioned minister cannot organize or unite churches, and cannot ordain elders and deacons. Weddings and baptisms cannot be performed outside of the assigned district without the same permission that a licensed minister must obtain.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Gregory on August 03, 2012, 08:29:07 PM
Bob, Iwould appreciate it if you wou ld givethe date,when you cite Working Policies.  They are published so often that I would find value in knowing the edition that you cite.

Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Bob Pickle on August 03, 2012, 09:27:31 PM
Bob, Iwould appreciate it if you wou ld givethe date,when you cite Working Policies.  They are published so often that I would find value in knowing the edition that you cite.

The NAD WP I have is 2011-2012. The GC WP I have is 2005-2006.
Title: Re: Gender Neutrality: Women, Gays, or Both?
Post by: Johann on August 04, 2012, 05:52:56 AM
Quote from: NAD Working Policy
L 26 Commissioned Ministers in Pastoral Positions—Role and Status

L 26 05 Requirements—An employee in pastoral position is recognized as a commissioned minister when all the following prerequisites have been satisfied:

1. Completion of the Bachelor of Arts degree with a major in Bible or religion plus nine quarters in the Seventh-day Adventist Theological Seminary, or two years of employment in ministerial or pastoral work or a total of two years of seminary training and employment in ministerial or pastoral work. Until this prerequisite has been met, the person will receive a missionary license.

2. Recipient of a commissioned minister license.

3. Appointment by the conference to a ministerial or pastoral responsibility.

4. Election as a church elder in the churches or named in the companies to which he/she is assigned.

5. Ordained as local elder.

L 26 10 states that a commissioned minister cannot organize or unite churches, and cannot ordain elders and deacons. Weddings and baptisms cannot be performed outside of the assigned district without the same permission that a licensed minister must obtain.

We should consider that the NAD Working Policy is only valid in North America and not anywhere else in the world. Some conferences or unions have for many years had their own working policies which could be quite different.

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