These kinds of things are distressing and nothing to rejoice over. Sad and horrible ends to what could have been good lives. I knew Tom on a professional basis and had a lot of respect for him and his ministry. VOM provides information that is vital for the global Christian community to know and I will continue to be supportive of them. My parents were friends of Richard Wurmbrand and I remember him well.
In the end, I suppose that Tom couldn't live with himself and took the only alternative that seemed acceptable. This is all so shocking, I can hardly comprehend it, but it is what it is. I hope the child is getting good help and is able to go on with life in a positive and successful way.